(Source: unrealace15)

Pakistan was founded because the Muslims of this sub-continent wanted to build up their lives in accordance with the teachings and traditions of Islam, because they wanted to demonstrate to the world that Islam provides a panacea to the many diseases which have crept into the life of humanity today.

PAKISTAN ZINDABAD!

A woman repeated a bit of gossips about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community  knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended.

Later, the woman responsible for spreading rumours learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.“Go to the marketplace.” He said ,”and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road.” Although surprised by this advice , the women did what she was told.The next day the wise man said, “Now, go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me.” The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay the wind had blown all the feather away. After searching for hours she returned with only 3 in her hands.

“You see,” said the old sage, “It is easy to drop them , but impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It does not take much to spread a rumor , but once you do , you can never completely undo the wrong.
 

When I ask you to listen to me you start giving me advices,
you have not done what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way,
you are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem you have failed me,
strange as that may seem.
Listen! All I ask is that you listen.
Don’t talk or do-just hear me.
Advice is cheap I can ask you for that myself; I am not helpless.
Maybe discouraged and flattering,
but not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself,
you contribute to my fear and inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel no matter how irrational,
then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear,
the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice.
Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people-because God is mute,
and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things.
God listens and lets you work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me.
And if you want to talk,
wait a minute for your turn-and i will listen to you. 

When an emotional injury takes place,

the body begins a process,

as natural as the healing,

of a physical wound.

Let the process happen.

Trust that nature

will do the healing.

Know that the pain will pass,

and, when it passes,

you will be stronger,

happier, more sensitive and aware.

I Think there is something you want to tell me,
Its okay you can tell me how it is and what is the reality.
I see the way you have been backing off lately,
Its okay you can tell me because I don’t want to create any fake fantasy.
Everything seemed so fine and then all of a sudden you changed,
All I wanted to know was where do we stand…
You know I’m no stalker and I sure don’t want to be a pain,
Reality is that you started to act weird and in some ways its kind of strange.
Tell me the truth because I don’t want myself to pretend,
Pretend and think that you will be mine and then see you walking out with some other woman.
I know it is really hard because we have these miles in between us,
We can over come any hurdles as long as there is loyalty, honesty and love.
Let me stop this here and ask what is it that you want to tell me,
Let it out boy because this thought is really getting a hold of me.
Speak your heart out and let me know how you really want this to be,
Because I am really falling for you and the strange change is really driving me insane.(Honestly)

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a had and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to lean that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too certain for plans.

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers and chocolates.
And you learn that you really can endure…
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.